FEEDERS/AFTER EFFECTS OF THE PUNCH

Yes from the last post, I got feeders attempting to bring me to a point of some “Reawakening”, on how difficult it is for ladies to put up a good look every day, all I can say to that is, I agree! Even though not absolutely. The fact That life tends to demand some kind of attention from us, and at most times its at an expensive price for some to pay isn’t new, some tend to look at ways to jump over the river and those kind of people get hurt in the process, how about paying the change for the fairy! And enjoy a jolly ride afterward.

As I see it, the price for keeping the hair together is little an investment for a return that not only gets you a quick dividend of compliments and attention but an eventual turn over by HIM, if you are thriving to keep him. You can imagine what it feels like when its time you ask for more shares, and HE makes you His major share Holder, eureka! That makes you the owner of the company. By the later train of thought I don’t mean you getting a job in a stock broking firm. And the capital investment for all of these is Time, what could be more.  So that’s my response, no time invested is a waste particularly when we are talking about that which deals directly about a very important subject as your outlook, by extension the perception that you give others of you, that’s if you care….. Till next time :)

PS- don’t try and see a horror movie or a documentary on insanity with your hair flying about, you might as well save your money and time.

Second Round knockout

Still on the context of “knockout”, which am sure you’ll are acquainted with the essence of its uses by now. Well less look at this punch from another angle since we may have jabbed enough from the hygiene perspective, let’s look at the hair for a little bit. It has been said for a fact that the hair is a covering for both sexes, oh yes, it protects other parts of the human body also as much places as it is located, but if it’s not well taking care of it may become even more a burden. Let’s look at the hair on the head. As a lady, it should be one of the top most priorities to keep it clean and tidy. Yes! It’s that four letter word again “TIDY”.

During summer, while all focus is on dresses and other outward aesthetics, also look out for care products that enhance and elongates your hair life, because it’s an offensive and defensive weapon of some sought. Daily as I go on, I see ladies (presumably yet unmarried),with shabbily kept hair, lots of makeup and a wonderful smile to indicate confidence, as courtesy demands I return the smile and greetings if they gave any, but deep within me I would say,” hey! There goes another, if only she knows”, know what? You may ask, well, know how further SHE keeps pushing HIM away of course. It’s no longer a discovery how visually sensitive male folks are, and your hair plays a major role on your advertorial….. Till next time :)

PS- make it a habit every time you are done dressing and making up, to have a recheck on that hair

HYGIENE! A knock out

From the thoughts we wrote last time, I believe the importance of the concept of hygiene should begin to sink into every Grey tissue. As the idea for the woman to hit back at her man gets more and more understood in essence than being just a play word or a statement of fuss. So where were we, oh yes, “Tidy” and “hygiene”, and we continue with clean teeth and fresh breath. It is often said that one of the best way to learn a lesson is to learn by example, the same goes for work place or family leadership. When a person’s hygiene level goes up it will most defiantly influence the closest person to him or her, and in our context ladies the Man who as we naturally know, is the head of a relationship at all levels would not want to be lead from behind and so a natural instinct kicks in to “up his game” as it were. So there is a lot to gain from and employ in strengthening that department of your life.

This equals well with all other parts of your “tidiness lifestyle”, yes I know it maybe some worth challenging at first, especially when you are not used to such from the part way of your life, where you come from, but as we said last time, they is no shame in taking baby steps but lots of gain…… till next time

PS-it’s essential that you look good, but I must say, the most expensive make up or make over is that of the heart.

For the woman, this is how you HIT BACK (Hygiene punch)

Let us continue from where we left off on previous lesson, When I say “TIDY”, am not referring to home front environment alone, that in itself is the foundation and we would get to it, “step by baby step”, but for some reason am kin to begin my purview from the personal or individual stance, how tidy are you? That’s the question; we are going to quickly but succinctly look at it. Personal hygiene could contribute a great deal to your relationship or mar the same, let’s take a scenario on this, imaging a lady that doesn’t keep her teeth clean and breath fresh, and we know to effectively do that regularly it takes discipline of at list twice a day practise to keep on. Except she wants to be #a walking bill Board of some sought, and she’s complaining of a bridge in communication between herself and her man, that sounds like a joke, right? Does she need a rocket scientist to figure that out and prove the physics of the foreseen collapse to her? Certainly not, maybe the chemistry of it ha ha! Its amazing how even a man filled with lots of junk in his stomach, after a hard day and maybe a stop with friends for a drink, sweaty etc, still would love to hug and get all the “hello dear!, how are you!, how was your day!,” from a lady . Am not excluding men from this or advocating that men should not imbibe good hygiene culture ,certainly not, am saying since this blog borders majorly on women and how they can “hit back”, a fresh breath is kind of like the thought of a knockout, then you can begin to imaging what thrusting the whole punch of hygiene at him would fill like…….  till next time, PS - hence forth, I would be giving a reminder as a kind of forecast for the next episode here. So since this is the premier of it, I would say till next time, brush your teeth and keep your fist clinched 

(2) For The Woman - knowing how to hit back

FOR THE WOMAN-Knowing how to” hit back”- hi people! My Apologies goes out to those who couldn’t quite follow some lines in my last post, due to typographical errors and all. I hope you managed to get out the reasonable thoughts in them, that I tried to pass across. But for real, the crocks of its entirety is situated in my very first post on this blog, more reason why you should endeavour to go through every post, and if you are someone who doesn’t like lengthy readings, well you may be missing out, I guaranty that every post here on The Real Writ are no peripheral talk but actual worth. Now this time, less take another thought from that introductory body of unveilings and treat it in brief jots, so everyone lady, woman and man can grasp and benefit from it quickly.
From last time, I mentioned “food” and how men relate to that irrespective of their race or culture, right?( visit lesson 2) So let’s get to know about another indivisible factor in the union of two that became one, or those in the process of becoming, as i have come to see it.
It’s that for letter word again; come on, now i don’t mean Love, “TIDY” is my watch word for this episode, it’s often said within scientific circles that “like poles attract, while unlike polls repel”. Generally, it is expected that human beings appreciated cleanliness, even if they are dirty! It doesn’t matter if you don’t agree with it or not, it’s the truth. Tidiness cuts across several parts of life. And in this context every man wants it! Let’s start from the way you dress ladies, everyman man is entrapped in some kind of “limbo web” created by a lady that doesn’t just dress nice, but who dresses tidy! Having everything in checks and well kept together, not haphazard or shabby, what makes the difference is a key ward again called “Details”! Let’s put it this way dot your “Is” and “Ts” ladies! Would explain next time, till then keep your fist clenched 

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HEY! This is Rely How to Hit Back at your Man (Notes)

THIS IS RELY HOW TO HIT BACK AT YOUR MAN - ( lecture notes). Due largely to concerns and questions from individuals on the subject,i desired to follow up with a lecture series on it.so chances are that you would get what you bargained for as the episodes continue to on fold, am not in for scientific jug-lings of facts,such as other clay footed idols would suggest, you know how they go about casting blames at the men gender in particular,as in the area of cheating,saying things like he should have self control "be a man" and go home to your wife if got that filling or urge. But am going to deal with truths as i review the subject.we are going to be take each key context by context.i would labor in the definition protocol as that has been dealt with extensively, For those that got lost already,quickly visit the introductory article "FOR THE WOMAN THIS IS HOW TO HIT BACK AT YOUR MAN (PART 1)" then join this lecture again.Thank you, Now less pick the area of "Smart work" and how you can hit back at your hubby. I talked about the stomach of a man,by that i mean that every enjoys a well cooked meal,now don't listen to those men(and women alike) who tend to say things such as,"am not a food person",well,what that man meant to say was,i eat seldom,in any case they eat! Even if they skip meals. Now, this truth is global,weather you are Caucasian,Hispanic or European,from Beijing to Durban every man would give attention to dinner time,so long as its well made and to add to that garnishing,its by my woman :)

Walking Billboards (part 1)

WALKING BILLBOARDS (Part 1) The world of Arts, Advertising and culture has gradually become a symbiotic Synergy. In a planet where perception is as real as reality itself, every creature including human beings cannot hide from this truth. This article seeks to unveil a very important discovery that big or small business owners could cleave to in order to increase sales and cash in turn. My observations unveil links between these three parts for effective business, and since Knowledge is power; it is therefore imperative that we come to terms with this fact so as to be able to use this to our advantage and the enrichment of our lives as well as the world at large. It’s good to come to terms with these concepts so as to appreciate them even more. However, what is their origin, what do they really mean? In anthropology, geography and other social sciences, a contiguous geographic area is one within which most societies share many traits in common. (Culture area. (2010). Encyclopædia Britannica. Encyclopaedia Britannica Student and Home Edition. Chicago: Encyclopædia Britannica). This is a definition of culture, the key for me would be the sharing of traits together, that is to say language could suffice as an arm of culture, the peoples of the former Union of the Soviet Socialist Republics for instance, have similar cultural traits, some still maintain such till today. The “cowboys” in the north of America also have a similar culture, we could also allude to the fact that there is a link between Race and Culture. The dark-skinned people of the world as well as their white, greenish and yellowish counterparts share cultural inclinations. And since the world in itself, is the total geographic ball, then such abstract realities as politics, diplomacy, love, death, etc are all included in this broad subject. We could logically argue for and against these points in relation to culture, but this may not be the avenue for that. Our concern here is to show the beauty and harmony of these concepts or what I call creative forces, and their link with each other. Various persons have limited their understanding of Art to its entertainment only. By this they infer that musicians, sculptors, painters, photographers, etc, showcase their works only for amusement and pleasure, get applauded and remunerated. We may excuse the shadows on their scope, and may rather finger the world’s mass media for this piecemeal misrepresentation of nature. Of course the relevance of arts has its various parts and each has its roots in the evergreen rivers of nature which are inexhaustible. Many go unappreciated and others may not be recognised or seen, not perhaps in this life time. As an example of such, I believe if professional photographers could capture fresh the fascinating display of carbon monoxide emitted from fighter jets in the skies during independence or other special events, that would be a value of art like it has never been seen before; or if we could see a stage drama live that gradually evolves into a high definition (HD) cinema piece or something akin to it. All these lie within the creativity of the human mind, there are indeed no limitations as far as art is concerned because it’s in the human. Speaking of creativity, today’s world of business employs various forms of art and culture for advancement of their day to day dealings, from billboards to signage’s, posters for office stationeries, even such unnoticed mode like dress codes and lots more, involving one if not both of them, whether it’s called branding or packaging it’s just a use of nomenclatures. I would say it’s an excuse or so, to use the arts and culture and give it another name. The social world can’t be left out of this equation, take sports for instance, be it American football, ice hockey, British Soccer or Japanese ping pong, beginning from the stadium and arena, which dates back to the era of the Greco-Roman Arts and Civilization. In modern times you would notice the beautiful colours in the arena, face caps, display items, painted faces, tattoos, etc, in fashion the designs are all Artistic, various fabrics are assembled from all over the world, this reflects the rich heritage of cultures, talk more of the sources of these fabrics, that would take us back to nature itself, which is the bedrock of all cultures and civilizations. A significant thought came to mind and this could go for free, could serve as a challenge as well, how about having walking billboards? “Working billboards!” you might exclaim. If advertising connotes the techniques and practices used to bring products, services, opinions, or causes to public notice for the purpose of persuading the public to respond in a certain way toward what is advertised (2010). Encyclopædia Britannica. Encyclopaedia Britannica Student and Home Edition. Chicago: Encyclopædia Britannica), Then these revolutions of the 20th and 21st century (tattoo for instance) should be put to good use, rather than constituting social nuisance. If a young man or lady is ready to show off his or her body indiscriminately for no benefit whatsoever, I believe such persons would be even more thrilled to know that this performing art, as it were, could add value to him or her economically. This might just bring in the needed advantage and competitive edge for most small/medium businesses, who can’t really afford the major advertising mediums of today’s world. Most blue-chips and multinational corporations today already have the name and have carved a niche for themselves, even to these class of businesses I would say,” you need it ” perhaps to move on with the social order in business, that would also mean been relevant in the social relations of this generation. The whole idea is just the same as the branded wrist band people wear these days, the logo and colours represent a specific organisation. So why not give it a try!. In all, each of these three forces flow into each other, maybe you would want to say they are interwoven. A proper study of one would lead you to the other. Take a music production for instance one of the Natural endowment there would be the voice of the musician, that’s talent- that is somebody with a good ability and power exemplified clearly in his or her Art- that is the finish record or album. Now a manager or record label needs to publicise this talent of the art to those that need it, the larger majority, that’s Advertising.

For the woman,this is how to hit back at your man

FOR THE WOMAN,THIS IS HOW TO HIT BACK AT YOUR MAN I don’t believe that dear Lucy shouldn’t hit back or retaliate at rude boy, hydro-headed, easily-freaked-out Frank given the statistics today, of broken relationships, which is definitely on the rise. There must be a way out for the women/ladies, who are generally described on earth today, with such not so strong ideological coinage, structure or frame, as “weaker vessels” or “fairer sex”. Although cultures have suggested or informed human behavior in several parts of the world there is a word as it is said that transcends all cultural space, need I mention it? “LOVE”, yes love, which seems the most generally inferred term or subject today, but the least understood. And yet, it is said to be a supernatural belief of all people regardless of gender, creed, sociopolitical or religious affiliations. MAN as discoveries have shown, is said to be a supernatural being, if so, “why hit your fellow MAN whom you say you love, or why love who you in turn hit!” This is my concern here, either ways; the address to this unusual letter would be properly readdressed through this medium to the direct destinations. Read on and you would understand further. For all single or married ladies in such situations, where you have your back against the wall, this would taste good and reinvigorate you even better than any energy drink would, and make you hit below the belt and at point blank range too, and for the man this would make you do well or even “Weller”! Quickly and succinctly, it is important to note that Getting back at your partner in such a way that he or she will feel you, and direct his or her attention back to you, should form the base for any notion in your mind as you read, as to what the term “HIT” connote in the context of this write up, as we are not suggesting the throwing of punches, the use of weapons or violence in any measure. However important as definitions are, this may not be the ideal medium for critical evaluations or such, but looking at a few that would help us understand relativity and relationships in this context, the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary puts the subject, as a loving and/or sexual friendship between two people,....in which two people, groups or countries behave towards each other or deal with each other. By this definition it would be safe to say that two persons that are not in to work out their trust for each other, should not be in a relationship in the first place, and the thought of love should be far at this point. Because before any two persons can say they are in love, more often than not they may go through several challenges. Theologians tell us that man in the Garden of Eden, was lonely until GOD gave him a woman, as a help mate, the word “help” also connotes the meeting of specific affection needs, that is to say, the woman, a human being, has what it takes and all it takes to care for the man relationally. Alabi D.O in his definition of compatibility put it as, “fitting to each other......ability to go together without a hitch; it has the idea of togetherness, unity, matching each other in the same boat of life”. Now, if the first man created didn’t fit in well (in the first instance) relationally with his woman, he wouldn’t continue with that relationship, regardless of challenges that would come later, even when he was on his way to be deceived by the same woman. What we are saying here is that challenges are common to man, so is the way of life, but an additional force in the person of your partner, makes it almost like a walk in the park. Keeping a relationship is smart work. I don’t want to say it’s hard; please understand me. Cheating in a relationship with another person, whether espoused to or that you are dating, is wrong, but I believe both parties in the relationship should go the extra mile individually to keep their partner, and indeed there are several ways to do that. If you are waiting for me to just go ahead and list a series of ways to achieve this continuum, you already missed me a while back in this piece. The world is even closer than a village now, information and opinions on the subject are just about anywhere, but I agree that there are however few authorities on the matter. You could start by identifying your partner’s likes and dislikes in all ramifications. Now to the undertone of this write-up, which is directed but not limited to the ladies, which is “how to get back at your man”. Well I have hinted briefly already while I gave the general advise to both male and female persons - ladies, it has been said severally and written, that men are dominantly visual, that is to say they are more in tune with their eye sense. Whatever they see arguably forms the larger part of their decisions and opinions, so it could be that, the man is sleeping around, or as it is commonly put cheating on you lady, as a result of several features he has seen in that woman that has being missing in his original woman, which is “you”; maybe her slim to fit figure, her trendy hair-dos, manicure and pedicure, it could be the way she talks, (charisma) or even the way she carries herself. Therefore Lucy honey, observe and study your man, know his likes and dislikes that would be the first stage. Now is not the time to be all out with that, “what about him” attitude, do your part and see how it goes. And all things been equal, he would be compelled by the force of your seemingly new routine to do what he should. Stage two is to keep a good attitude and talk with your man. I know from studies that this type of cultural approach may not be universally accepted. In most western hemispheric nations for instance, women tend to be the boss of the house or the relationship, and they have no time for dialogue with their partners; they state their views when they feel and expect it to be taken. Their assumption may be that there are other men out there waiting, so why waste my time, but in some countries of the south, where strong moral values are adhered to, the doctrine of sitting and talking to your man, is very effective for solving relationship issues. If he continues to cheat on you, you should move to stage three, which is talking to his family and close friends, this has a tangible effect, as they could in turn convince him to come back to his senses, but that is if these family members and friends are not birds of the same feather. Stage four, and that is if he still hasn’t turned a new leaf, is to talk to the girl or lady in question, of course not without a close friend of yours or family around, as this may naturally result into an argument or worse off, a fight, which could result in fatal consequences. Stage five, if I didn’t mention it earlier perhaps its due to the erroneous religious view that stems from a wrong notion, which suggests that, “God will do everything for you, just pray”. This actually should be stage one, but with the right approach to follow it, which is acting accordingly to what your heart tells you after you finish listening to that wonderful voice of direction, which is in your inside. So tell me, what do you think? Well, for me I believe this is a knock out even before any fight between you and your man. Ladies, if these steps or as I put it stages don’t put you in an advantage position in your relationship, to be candid I don’t know what would. These blows are better than the jabs of all professional heavyweight boxers put together. I don’t believe Mohammed Ali could do any better in this match,